Many autistic people are, or would like to be, in a sexual relationship. For some, navigating sex and relationships can be challenging.

Sex education

Sex education is normally addressed in school, but may not be presented at the right pace or time for your child. As a parent or carer, it’s a good idea to talk to children about puberty and their bodies as soon as you feel they're ready. Knowing in advance about physical changes that can be expected in puberty can be helpful for autistic children. This can make the experience of menstruation or other bodily changes less anxiety provoking.

Appropriate behaviour

Some autistic people struggle with understanding what is considered socially appropriate behaviour, for example in terms of touching or kissing others. It can also be difficult to recognise that different rules apply to how we behave in public and private spaces. Using tools such as social stories and comic strip conversations can help to discuss these issues.

Staying safe

It’s important for autistic people to understand consent and how to keep themselves safe, both in person and online. The NSPCC has created a range of materials on the topic of online safety that may be helpful.